Breaking Boundaries: how to suffer your way to success

My Story

When I was 18 years old, I left an abusive home. Maybe you can relate. I left for the Marine Corps, which was jumping from the frying pan into the fire. There, I experienced many abuses, but I also experienced genuine female leadership for the first time in my life. Those women made an indelible impression upon me. Their impression didn’t take root until many years later, when my emotional intelligence evolved, but when I was ready to take another leap their mentorship was there to guide me and give me strength.

Leaping out of my comfort zone was a scary endeavor, and there were perils along the way, but my inevitable strength of character was a major pay off.

The Comfort Zone

The comfort zone serves as a sanctuary, providing stability, familiarity, and a sense of security. Within its confines, individuals can find solace in routine, avoiding the anxiety and uncertainty that often accompany stepping into the unknown. This familiarity can foster a sense of confidence and contentment, allowing individuals to navigate their daily lives with ease. However, the comfort zone also has its drawbacks. By staying within its boundaries, individuals may limit their potential for growth and development, as true progress often requires venturing beyond familiar territory. Moreover, excessive reliance on the comfort zone can lead to stagnation, complacency, and missed opportunities for personal and professional advancement. In essence, while the comfort zone offers comfort and stability, it can also hinder personal growth and prevent individuals from reaching their full potential. Finding a balance between comfort and growth is essential for leading a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Where would I be now if I had not left my comfort zone? I know people who are still living back home, after 20+ years, and their lives are unchanged. I didn’t want that for myself. I wanted growth.